When Faith Crisis Touched My Life
My first real experience with a faith crisis was about 10 years ago. My husband at the time, who was serving on the high council, confided in me about his doubts—doubts that arose as he tried to help others in their faith journeys. At the time, I wasn’t a very good listener. I was afraid, and I didn’t know how to create space for his concerns. I offered the typical Sunday School answers, not understanding the depth of his struggle.
The Journey that Reshaped Me
My Own Dark Night of the Soul
A couple of years later, I found myself facing my own doubts and deconstruction process. I spent months questioning everything—my foundation, my beliefs, and my place in the faith I had always known. It was a painful, grief-filled time, and there were moments when I wasn’t sure who I could talk to or where to turn.
In the midst of this personal upheaval, I was also navigating intense family dynamics. The stress and emotional weight of this period drove me to my knees, and in that vulnerability, I embarked on a journey of self-discovery and growth. What I initially saw as a crisis became the very thing that pushed me toward a deeper understanding of myself and my relationship with God.
When My Crisis Became My Turning Point
During that time, my morning alarm became a source of comfort. Every day, I woke to It Is Well With My Soul by Anthem Lights, a reminder that peace was still possible—even in the midst of uncertainty. It was through this process that I discovered the power of life coaching. A coach helped me understand my thoughts and feelings more clearly, and in turn, helped me see the impact they were having on my life.
That’s when I realized my calling: to help others navigate their own journeys with grace and courage. I want to be the safe space that I needed when my world felt like it was crashing down—a place where people can find reassurance, without judgment or simple answers.
While I don’t claim to have all the answers, I can offer something invaluable: a listening ear, a heart that understands, and the assurance that peace can be found—right where you are. My faith in God is stronger than ever, and though my journey will always be a process of growth and learning, I rejoice in the faith I’ve come to cherish.
If you’re in the midst of uncertainty, I want you to know this: It can be well with your soul. I know it, because I’ve experienced it myself.
Let’s talk about how I can support you in your journey
Family Story Time
Lily’s Story
My daughter sharing her experience with scrupulosity, or faith related guilt, and coming to find her God, a loving and accepting Father. I am so grateful for my daughter and friend and her wisdom and beautiful soul.
Nate’s Story
My brother sharing his experience of growing up as a gay young man in an LDS community. I am so grateful for this guy and his big heart, the sweetest brother a girl could ask for.