The Journey that Reshaped Me
Welcome, I’m Rebekah (Bekah)
I am a certified life coach, an English major, and the mother of five incredible children, a wonderful bonus son, and a furry best friend named Penny. Time spent in nature, traveling, and connection with loved ones is where I find my renewal.
Learning to Listen
My passion for coaching Latter-day Saint women was born out of my own dark night of the soul. I know what it feels like when the ground beneath your life completely shifts.
My first encounter with a faith crisis was in 2015 when my former husband—who was serving on the high council—confided in me about the heavy doubts he had been carrying for years. At the time, I didn't know how to create space for his experience. Terrified, I offered simple Sunday School answers, unable to grasp the depth of his struggle.
My Own Dark Night of the Soul
When I finally found the courage to lean in and listen, I unexpectedly faced my own faith crisis. I spent months questioning the very bedrock of my life—my beliefs, my worldview, and my identity within the Latter-day Saint community. It was an isolating, grief-filled time when I often didn't know who was safe to talk to or where to turn. The pit in my stomach stayed with me for almost a year.
Yet, that dark night of the soul eventually became a sacred turning point. It forced me to stop looking outward for validation and begin developing a grounded, authentic relationship with God and myself.
Layered on top of this spiritual shift was a painful reality at home: an environment marked by coercive control and the quiet panic of walking on eggshells. The emotional strain was immense, but it ultimately woke me up. I realized that surviving wasn't the same as living. I began the hard work of deep self-reflection—learning how to clean up my side of the street, set firm boundaries, speak my truth, and stop self abandoning to maintain a fragile status quo.
Though my 24-year marriage ultimately ended in divorce, that painful season taught me how to author my own life. If you are standing at your own crossroads right now, please know that this pain is not the end of your story. It can be the birth of a life built on real peace, unshakeable integrity, and genuine self-trust.
When My Crisis Became My Calling
In the darkest moments of that transition, my morning alarm was a quiet lifeline. Waking up to It Is Well With My Soul by Anthem Lights reminded me each day that peace was still possible, even when everything around me felt fractured.
When I found life coaching, the trajectory of my life shifted. My coach gave me a safe place to process my thoughts and feelings without judgment, helping me see the subtle ways I was giving my power away—and showing me how to reclaim it.
That experience ignited my purpose. I created Well With My Soul Coaching to be the refuge I once needed: a space where you can bring your hardest questions, your fears, and your crossroads without being met with easy platitudes or pressure. While I don't claim to have all the answers for your unique life, I am here to help you hear your own inner wisdom above the noise.
My faith and trust in God have grown stronger through this refining process, and I know firsthand that transformation is real. No matter how uncertain the path ahead feels right now, you don't have to navigate it alone—and it truly can be well with your soul.
Let’s talk about how I can support you in your journey
Family Story Time
Lily’s Story
My daughter sharing her experience with scrupulosity, or faith related guilt, and coming to find her God, a loving and accepting Father. I am so grateful for my daughter and friend and for her wisdom and her beautiful soul.
Nate’s Story
My brother sharing his experience of growing up as a gay young man in an LDS community. I am so grateful for this guy and his big heart, the sweetest brother a girl could ask for.